Ritesh approached me for guidance on his career and job success. He was facing a tough time at work. Due to dissatisfaction at work, he was also cultivating stress and this was slowly growing towards depression. Ritesh had come to me through a common friend. The first time we met, he told me he is feeling depressed about his work life and need help to overcome this depression. I heard him for almost 1 hr and all that I could identify was –
- He was not enjoying the work.
- He was feeling he is not paid well.
- He was upset with the relations he had with his colleagues and seniors at workplace.
- There was nothing motivating for him at the office.
- He hated what work he did.
- He hated his boss.
These are common feeling we all go through at some point in time in our work life. Where do such thoughts come from? The answer to this question is our own belief system. There was one point in time even I had similar thoughts coming and it leads to frequent shifts in the job. During my course on changing belief system, using concepts of Louise Hay, I could identify the reason for these frequent shifts and dissatisfaction.
All I learnt from Louise was, “We can find the successful job only when we change the way we look at the work we do.” This really changed my career. I joined HDFC Life and achieved great success. I learnt and work for more than 9 yrs with HDFC Life, the longest tenure in an organisation, I worked with. Yes, you correctly read, ‘I learnt’. More than a job it was my grooming classes. With wonderful leaders, I got opportunities to explore my untapped potentials. So how could this happen for me? The change in approach.
Job success totally depends on the way we look at it. I have seen so many people complaining about the lack of success in career, dissatisfaction at work, the dissatisfaction of income, etc. the fact is you are in the job that you have attracted for yourself in the past. After changing my belief about work and job success, I got the opportunity to work with HDFC Life. Job success came to me simply by being positive about all that I did at work.
There are pity things we do wrong and end up with dissatisfaction at work. Ask yourself –
- Do you bless your boss with love?
- Do you bless your co-workers with love?
- Do you bless the place/location, where you work, with love?
- Do you bless all the things you use at the workplace with love?
The answer is ‘NO’ for most of us. We are not creating the loving atmosphere at the workplace and then we complain no one loves us at work.
No think about this –
- Do you criticise about your boss or manager or superior? If Yes, you get the same from your subordinates.
- Do you appreciate your subordinates? If No, you also feel the lack of appreciation and motivation from your seniors.
It is very simple. What you sow, so you reap.
Now, I suggest beginning with the change. I will help you with few tips, I implemented for my job success. They are simple to do and give great results. All you need to have a positive approach, mindset towards change and consistency.
Tip 1 for Job Success –
Before you leave for work in the morning, sit in a calm place, in the comfortable position. Try and observe your breathing. Thoughts would flow. Try to come back to your breathing awareness. Slowly you will develop silence in your mind. Just 10 minutes of silence in mind makes wonders. Now you are ready to begin your day.
Tip 2 for Job Success –
Have some positive affirmations printed in bold letters at your desk, such that you can see it frequently while working. I had some on my desktop.
“I bless my job with love. I bless my Boss with love. I bless my seniors with love. I bless my co-workers with love. I bless my workplace with love. I put love in everything I do.”
“No matter where I am, there is only infinite good, infinite wisdom, infinite harmony, and infinite love.”
Picked from Louise Hay daily affirmations.
Tip 3 for Job Success –
Have your daily affirmations for job success that you may want to repeat at least twice a day.
Try these 3 Tips for Job Success and experience the change. I have experienced it and so you can too.
All the best for your job success.
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